While you may be doing everything in your power to attract the woman, it may surprise you to learn that some of your actions and behaviors can actually have the opposite effect.
In fact, you may not even realize that you’re acting in a way that drives the woman away when all you’re really trying to do is draw them toward you. In order to take control of the situation and truly attract the right woman, avoid these things and you’ll hopefully grab there attention rather than be left empty-handed.
Flatterable gets you everywhere, but even with flattery there has to be some level of genuineness attached to it. you cant just start by bothering women up as soon as you see them , it comes across as very insincere. A lot of women will begin to ask questions like you barely even know me and here you are going on about how you think am intelligent and love my personality when this is actually the first time we are speaking.
Slow down the compliments, don’t go above and beyond just trying to make her look good about herself . she will definitely avoid you and likely tell her friends about u and they will laugh you .
Cut down the compliments, make them genuine , possibly avoid completely compliments about her body because she will definitely think all you think about is removing her panties.
Talking about sex too soon.
We know you have an endgame with us. In fact, we’d be mightily insulted if you didn’t want to sleep with us after the first date! However, if you rush us or push us into a sex guilt-trip, we’re not going to put out; instead, we’re going to start wondering whether you like us for our personality or for our breasts. If you really like a girl and are interested in forming a long-lasting relationship with her, hold off on the pressure. She’ll let you know when she’s ready — and it will probably be sooner than you think. Oh, and once you’ve had sex with her, all bets are not off. Calling your new date at 2:00 a.m. after a big boozy night out with your buddies when she has an early start the next day for her 6:00 a.m. Pilates session is not a good way to act at the beginning of a relationship. In fact, you can bet your box of condoms that if you continue to do so, she’s going to bitch to her girlfriends about you and then think of the best excuse to let you down gently. If this girl is serious about you, then she’ll want a proper boyfriend, not a Friday night casual sex buddy. Booty calling her shows you’re not serious about her and that you view her as a slut — and no girl wants to think of herself as being treated that way.
Calling and texting too much.
there are lot of men who thinks that to win a woman over you need to chase them, bored them with call and text messages, try and be at all the places that she is to get her attention. a lot of women like to chase but not all of them appreciate been pursued bey some guy who is coming across .
Its a really bad idea to bug or chase a woman down, it understandable, sometimes being persistence can win you the girl but it will always put them off for girls who really know what they want. they may be flattered by the fact that there is they who’s trying to get her attention.
Don’t hunt that woman because you will seem socially inapt′, desperate, in secured or impatient, and non of those work to your advantage.
It also another factor that scares women away. some men just go in too quickly to tell people or the women they go out with how much money they make , the cars they have, and the kind of houses they live in and many more, unless you are looking forward to getting a gold digger and you will get many of them .Tone down on showing off and bragging of your achievement and things you have got and talk more about things that really matter.
You know what it’s like: You’re sitting at home playing PlayStation while your hot new girlfriend is still out drinking with a bunch of her male colleagues. It’s getting late and since you haven’t heard from her for a couple of hours, you try to get hold of her. But you can’t. So you start obsessively calling, texting and stalking her Facebook page. Unfortunately, she’s not going to think it’s cute; she’s going to think it’s creepy. Wait for her to contact you and then listen and nod politely when she regales to you stories about her crazy antics from the night before. Even if you are growing green with envy over the fact that she was hanging with other men, you need to act like she’s entitled to have a life of her own. And if you do this, she’s going to want to spend even more time with you anyway.
Slow your role
Very important , maybe you have the sense of urgency, cus she is a hot cake and you feel that maybe if you do not ask her out or make her your girl friend as soon as possible , there is a chance that another man might. But you really need to pace yourself because the woman ha to feel the same way about you too before you go on to ask her out or be your girlfriend.
Now too much too soon can leave a woman feeling like you want to control her , and women are running away from that . not trying to get into controlling relationship where you are not free.