You are most likely one of those guys who will send a message to a girl, and that message will most likely be read or ignored for several days at a time. It’s difficult to strike up a meaningful conversation with her because she only gives you monosyllabic answers, closed off answers, and answers that don’t prompt further conversation.
Now, if you’re the type of guy who has been getting those unemotional Stone Cold responses, this is the article for you.
How do you get a girl or a woman to respond to your messages quickly? I’m about to tell you three secrets.
- Send her messages that pique her interest.
Here’s a quick primer on curiosity and why it’s so important: when something piques your interest, your brain enters what’s known as a curiosity state. First, the parts of the brain that are sensitive to unpleasant conditions light up, indicating that you are slightly uncomfortable because you recognize you are lacking certain knowledge. Then the parts of your brain responsible for learning and memory kick into high gear.So you can learn and remember information more effectively. This is the point at which you are ready to start looking for answers. And when you start learning new facts out of curiosity, something even more interesting than high school memory occurs. Your reward circuitry is activated. That’s correct.
Your brain rewards you for being curious and following through on that curiosity. Dopamine, the brain’s reward chemical, has been found to be intricately linked to the brain’s curiosity states, according to researchers. When you explore and satisfy your curiosity, your brain releases dopamine into your body, making you feel happier.
Curiosity is something that every human being experiences, so being able to elicit a curious reaction from a woman whose attention you’re attempting to win is crucial. When she’s curious, she wants to know more, so keep in mind that you’ll have to come up with creative ways to keep the conversation going. After you have satisfied her curiosity, she will return to her Stone Cold responses, and the conversation will end as quickly as it began.So, for example, you could say something like, “You’ll never believe what I saw you doing in my dream last night,” and then leave the text there. Do you want to bet that she will definitely respond and ask you about your dream? You’ve got her attention. And now that you have her attention, you can lengthen it a little. Don’t tell her what the dream was about right away. However, take advantage of this opportunity to get your message across and start a conversation. Long after you’ve informed her about the dream you had.
Now, I’m not teaching you to lie, but I’m curious whether you made up the dream or if it was real. Make certain that you do not turn her off by some of the things you say when she inherits the drink.
For example, if she’s a friend, the last thing she wants to hear is a guy rambling on about a dream he had about getting physical with her when she doesn’t even see you in that light. So be creative with your dream, and use it as a springboard to engage her in further conversation. Trust me, women are inquisitive creatures, and if you can pique her interest with a message, you will receive an immediate response, and it works every time.
- Texts that arouse curiosity.
You must figure out how to get her to anticipate something that is about to happen. For example, you could say, “I know your birthday is in a month.” I have a really big idea that I think you should hear, or you can simply send a message like Hey, I was walking through the mall the other day and something reminded me of you, so I got it for you. And I was wondering when you’d be free to accept my gift. Something as straightforward as that. All that remains is for the next message to arrive. Thank you very much. You got me a present. Wow. What exactly is it?
Hook. Sinker and line
Take a chance, bro. Simply go for it. You can now engage her in a little more conversation than she would normally give you because you’ve managed to create a sense of anticipation, depending on how exciting your message was. Very few women can resist the urge to engage you further and try to figure out what they’re waiting for, what this big ideal big present is, right? So think a little bit and come up with some very interesting ways to create anticipation in your text messages.
A final example is a message that says, “If you agree to go on a date with me this Friday, guess where I’m going to take you?” I’m guessing you’ve never been there. You simply choose her curiosity. You build anticipation for an upcoming activity. And she’ll become a little chattier. If it’s something she truly wants to do. So, once you’ve mastered the art of crafting messages that revolve around anticipation and itself, you’ll be more than capable of texting women and receiving immediate responses.
- pay genuine compliments
The final texting secret I believe you should master when dealing with acquaintances you may have only met or known for a short time is to offer genuine compliments. And I’m not talking about compliments on her physical appearance, as that can be a turnoff for some people, depending on who she is. I’m talking about compliments that encompass everything but her, for example, if she’s a corporate woman or an entrepreneur, make an offer compliments that compliment her mind, her way of thinking, and the way she takes charge.For the time being, avoid compliments about her body, her appearance, or anything else that may come across as offensive, depending on the type of woman you’re dealing with, and really think about it. Who doesn’t appreciate a good compliment? And when people compliment you, you feel obligated to respond. It may not necessarily generate a full conversation, but it will provide you with an almost immediate response from this woman whose attention was previously difficult to obtain. Pay attention and think hard. Think quickly. You must be quick on your feet. Because there are so many different ways to get a woman’s attention through text.
As previously stated, these are the top three in my opinion. If you have any additional points to add to this one, please leave them in the comments section below.